Nowadays Love and Relationships aren't like they used to be.

It’s a different era where we look for a partner on a dating site, social media and through technology, the whole communication in a relationship has changed.

Women are insecure about their looks and feel that “all good men are taken”.

While men seem to be confused and less interested in commitment.

Many of us feel not good enough or buy-in to the lie that you’re “just not meant to be happy in love.”

Or that getting a divorce would make everything better.

It’s easy to search out “experts” who promise strategies and “rules” with men, and to try to find out simple solutions to your complex situation – it’s exhausting and disappointing when you don’t get the results you want.

It’s about the way we were raised and the things we believed about ourselves, growing up, what blocks us from having the love we want and deserve.

We all have these old patterns that make us choosing something else than love.

Something that feels like love - mostly because of the chemistry that we feel with this person - and falls apart when the fighting or cheating starts.