Inspire His Desire

Activate His Emotional Attachment To  You With The pOWER Of Your Feminine Magnetism

Are you tired of dating the "wrong ones"?

Do you feel if you not 'push' the relationship forward, nothing will happen?

Are you screaming inside for love and affection, and also feeling the pain of him withdrawing further?

From my own experiences, I know exactly how frustrating and lonely this feels - and believe me - It doesn't have to be this way!

What if the man you love would do everything to be with you?

Wants to spend time with you, continually takes you out for dinner or a nice weekend off to the sun...

He would be there to help you and to take care of you...

What if he wants exactly what you want for the future, marriage, a few kids?

How would that feel? 

For me, it feels amazing to be with this sweet loving man.

To feel seen, safe and secure with the man I'm sharing my life with.

And I know FOR SURE you can have this too!

So what if YOUR desire can become also HIS desire?

What if True Love is also available for you and isn't hard work at all?

Are you ready?

What some Clients say:

"Thanks to the insights given to me by Judith I’ve rejuvenated my relationship."

““For years I was in a relationship where it was more about him than about us. I took care of the children and he watched soccer every week with his friends. Doing something with my partner became an exception. I blamed my partner for this. After a few coaching sessions with Judith, it became clear to me that I was one of the major causes of this. Judith showed me that my boundaries were stretched the last years and to become happy again in this relationship I should set these boundaries again. I should point out what I want. Thanks to the insights given to me by Judith his eyes are opened and we are now doing a lot of things together. He has never given me so many compliments”

- Sonja Vos, 34

A conversation with Judith is like a warm bath!"

"I think it is great that Judith speaks from her own experience, which immediately gives a feeling of familiarity with her. That you are basically on the same boat as a woman and thus have the feeling that you can talk to her easily and also implement her tips faster.
There is no judgment, but an open and loving vision on how you can bring out the best in yourself.
I think Judith makes it vulnerable by talking about desires, which everyone has, of which she says is a powerful but loving way:
"Why don't you do anything about it? Why are you selling yourself short?
It is nice that Judith gives practical tips that you can start using right away. She makes 'difficult things' very simple and perhaps gives just that little push that people need to start attracting love in their life and their relationship. Also, I think her last points are important, the love for yourself and your own life.
With that, she puts readers with both feet on the ground, which I think can help the love again.
I can't wait to read more and I can also advise anyone to talk to Judith if you have doubts and uncertainties. A conversation with Judith is like a warm bath!"

- Sarah Barten, 27 - The Hague

"Judith is an amazing coach!"

She understood my situation immediately and made me feel better after just an hour with her.

She is calm, comforting and caring,

She gave me tools and put me into action so that I get fast results.

After a few coaching sessions with Judith, I feel more confident and connected to my feelings.

I handle my feelings better and I have learned to put boundaries, which makes a huge difference in the dating progress."

- Elodie, 45 - Paris

"I am now much more aware, more confident and more relaxed than I have been in recent years "

" For years, I thought. to be a "happy" single, while this was not the case. I was just tired of going to parties, to explain to visit family again that I only found it totally fine. I bought self-help books and devoured them. This knowledge also helped me out with a partner and I started thinking more and more that it was up to me.
When I met Judith on Youtube. I decided to take the plunge to and contacted her. This was one of the best decisions I've made in recent years. Judith knows how to listen very well and gave me some very valuable insights sessions. I am now much more aware, more confident and more relaxed than I have been in recent years. We have adjusted my dating profile and I am now actively dating. I am convinced that "my" man on the white horse will be soon. "

- Melanie Bakker, 31 - Amsterdam

The first session with Judith and I immediately felt safe. Safe to be me, vulnerable, and open.

With compassion, love, and great tools she guided me through the process of learning how to focus on myself and be my FIRST choice in my relationship.

She has a big, warm heart and was really embracing all of me and also being cheerful, supportive, and loving all the way through our sessions.

Thank you again so much.

Love and blessings your way

Jessica Enqvist, 49  - Sweden

Judith's blog

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